Women’s Sexuality – Past and Present / Roni erez

As strange as it may sound today, up until the 1950’s it wasn’t acceptable, respected or understood, that a woman has the right to enjoy sex. It was always just assumed that she was enjoying it. As a general rule, a woman’s role was to become pregnant and bear children. Because women got pregnant, men assumed they also enjoyed the intercourse. Men’s enjoyment of sex was always granted, tangible and visual while women’s enjoyment depends on many factors and in any case is not tangible or visua...
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Sexual Beliefs and Viewpoints – Right and Wrong/ roni erez

Awareness is the ability to be present in every moment of your life without your or anyone else’s judgment. It is the ability to accept everything, repel nothing, and create everything you desire in life – bigger than what you have now, and more than you can imagen. Every women is unique and has places she can empower within herself to discover the sexual hidden treasures inside of her. All that is required is to identify the right moment, and decide to allow ourselves to experience while bei...
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Growing Closer Through Sexual Communication/ roni erez

While working with different women, many have confided in me that sometimes they are frustrated because they aren’t able to communicate well with their partner during sex. For example: “He’s hurting me”, “He keeps touching the top of my clitoris but I like it when he touches the sides”, “He bites my nipples”, “He always wants me on all fours and I don’t always feel comfortable with it”, “He puts his finger inside me and sometimes it doesn’t feel good”, “He goes down on me for a too long and I...
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Sexual fantasies in women / Roni Erez

Many women require a fantasy in order to orgasm, especially women with clitoral orgasms. For thousands of years women would not discuss sex or anything related to it, not with others nor amongst themselves. Up until the 1970’s there was no discourse regarding women’s sexual fantasies. There was no appropriate vocabulary for it and no unifying symbol system through which to describe their sexual emotions. Women were forbidden to disclose having erotic thoughts or being turned on by sex. In the ...
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The Many Aspects of the Female Orgasm / roni erez

One of my clients asked me once: “why do I have such a hard time reaching an orgasm? I don’t understand what this ‘orgasm’ is that everyone talks about. Even in the rare occasions I did manage to come, I didn’t understand what was happening to me and what I was feeling. It was like a wave of warm heat engulfing me, coupled with currents of pleasure”. The female orgasm is an interesting feeling, but more than that, it is also more complex than most realize. Recent research has mapped women’s ...
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Freedom from Limiting Beliefs – Let Go of Your Parents / Roni erez

During my many sessions with women, I hear an argument they make regarding their parents. They claim that even when they were children, their parent instilled in the women the thought that enjoying sex or acting in a way that men would interpret as inviting sex, was undignified. For example “don’t look men in the eyes”, “don’t walk around too exposed” (and the natural follow on: “so people don’t think you are a slut”), “don’t sleep with a man too soon so he won’t think you are easy”, “don’t ex...
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The Connection between Female Orgasm and Evolution / Roni erez

During intercourse women can be grouped according to the way they reach orgasm. To the dismay of many women (and men), most women (around 80%) orgasm via the clitoris. This leads to many problems. Some don’t orgasm at all. Others orgasm only rarely, or after much hard work (by themselves or with their partners, sometimes using different sex toys). In the last 60 years a growing body of evidence has shown why this happens. Why some women orgasm from penetration and others, most, orgasm from cli...
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The importance of the sacred space in love making / Roni erez

Routine is the worst enemy of love making amongst married couples. No one chooses to stop wanting their partner, it just happens naturally. But we don’t have to accept routine as an unavoidable obstacle. We can act in ways that would push it away and won’t let it appear. All we have to do is break our patterns, because patterns are bound to promote routine. Feng Shui is an ancient eastern art focused on increasing harmony and the stream of energy in our surroundings. The bedroom is the most ...
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What Happens to Women During Clitoral Orgasm? / Roni erez

For many women, reaching an orgasm is an important part of love making or masturbation. This is why it is important to have an intimate environment to arouse sexual energy. During sexual arousal the vagina becomes wet and blood flow increases. Its color changes and becomes darker while the clitoris also becomes wet. The lips of the vagina swell outward. The cervix and uterus are pulled up into the pelvic region. The vagina becomes elongated, heart rate increases as does breathing, sweating, an...
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Sex is like food / roni erez

The connection between sex and food is very common in our society. Many foods are perceived as aphrodisiacs, and the term “pleasures of the flesh” has quite the double meaning. A person who takes pleasure in eating is often presumed to enjoy the pleasures of sex. Many movie scenes combining sex with food were implanted in our minds over the years. The ice scene and the wine and strawberries scene from the movie 9½ Weeks are of the most memorable examples. If food and sex are so related and i...
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The Importance of the Weekly Date Night / Roni erez

Long lasting relationships can decrease sexual desire. In the beginning most couples don’t talk about this fact because they both want sex. Even couples that are not very sexual understand in their subconscious that sex is important to substantiating the relationship. And of course being in love also contributes a great deal to this as well. As the relationship matures and the sense of certainty in the relationship grows, couples find themselves more and more preoccupied with life’s tasks. Livi...
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