Dear Roni

I feel like I was reborn, you taught me a lot about myself. With your toolsand who you are,i got myself back. Thanks to you I learned to have orgasms and as i gained confidece, it significantly improved the quality of my sex life. Your tips are sexually empowering not just for me, but also to my partner, and for that I thank you very much. At the end of each encounter the feeling is divine, and the combination of perfect personal and sexual empowerment! I recommend you to anyone who is ...
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Dear Roni

It all started from a birthday ... I received a birthday gift for a two-session workshop for feminine empowerment. I came for the first time to a complete surprise, and Roni was full of energy and smiles greeted me It is hard for me to describe the intensity of the experience I underwent during these two meetings ... I was a very sexy woman and I always liked sex, I was not shy about my nudity. I came from a very open house in a conversation about sex but ... My big surprise was that the more...
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Women’s Sexuality – Past and Present / Roni erez

As strange as it may sound today, up until the 1950’s it wasn’t acceptable, respected or understood, that a woman has the right to enjoy sex. It was always just assumed that she was enjoying it. As a general rule, a woman’s role was to become pregnant and bear children. Because women got pregnant, men assumed they also enjoyed the intercourse. Men’s enjoyment of sex was always granted, tangible and visual while women’s enjoyment depends on many factors and in any case is not tangible or visua...
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Sexual Beliefs and Viewpoints – Right and Wrong/ roni erez

Awareness is the ability to be present in every moment of your life without your or anyone else’s judgment. It is the ability to accept everything, repel nothing, and create everything you desire in life – bigger than what you have now, and more than you can imagen. Every women is unique and has places she can empower within herself to discover the sexual hidden treasures inside of her. All that is required is to identify the right moment, and decide to allow ourselves to experience while bei...
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Growing Closer Through Sexual Communication/ roni erez

While working with different women, many have confided in me that sometimes they are frustrated because they aren’t able to communicate well with their partner during sex. For example: “He’s hurting me”, “He keeps touching the top of my clitoris but I like it when he touches the sides”, “He bites my nipples”, “He always wants me on all fours and I don’t always feel comfortable with it”, “He puts his finger inside me and sometimes it doesn’t feel good”, “He goes down on me for a too long and I...
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Sexual fantasies in women / Roni Erez

Many women require a fantasy in order to orgasm, especially women with clitoral orgasms. For thousands of years women would not discuss sex or anything related to it, not with others nor amongst themselves. Up until the 1970’s there was no discourse regarding women’s sexual fantasies. There was no appropriate vocabulary for it and no unifying symbol system through which to describe their sexual emotions. Women were forbidden to disclose having erotic thoughts or being turned on by sex. In the ...
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The Many Aspects of the Female Orgasm / roni erez

One of my clients asked me once: “why do I have such a hard time reaching an orgasm? I don’t understand what this ‘orgasm’ is that everyone talks about. Even in the rare occasions I did manage to come, I didn’t understand what was happening to me and what I was feeling. It was like a wave of warm heat engulfing me, coupled with currents of pleasure”. The female orgasm is an interesting feeling, but more than that, it is also more complex than most realize. Recent research has mapped women’s ...
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Freedom from Limiting Beliefs – Let Go of Your Parents / Roni erez

During my many sessions with women, I hear an argument they make regarding their parents. They claim that even when they were children, their parent instilled in the women the thought that enjoying sex or acting in a way that men would interpret as inviting sex, was undignified. For example “don’t look men in the eyes”, “don’t walk around too exposed” (and the natural follow on: “so people don’t think you are a slut”), “don’t sleep with a man too soon so he won’t think you are easy”, “don’t ex...
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The Connection between Female Orgasm and Evolution / Roni erez

During intercourse women can be grouped according to the way they reach orgasm. To the dismay of many women (and men), most women (around 80%) orgasm via the clitoris. This leads to many problems. Some don’t orgasm at all. Others orgasm only rarely, or after much hard work (by themselves or with their partners, sometimes using different sex toys). In the last 60 years a growing body of evidence has shown why this happens. Why some women orgasm from penetration and others, most, orgasm from cli...
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The importance of the sacred space in love making / Roni erez

Routine is the worst enemy of love making amongst married couples. No one chooses to stop wanting their partner, it just happens naturally. But we don’t have to accept routine as an unavoidable obstacle. We can act in ways that would push it away and won’t let it appear. All we have to do is break our patterns, because patterns are bound to promote routine. Feng Shui is an ancient eastern art focused on increasing harmony and the stream of energy in our surroundings. The bedroom is the most ...
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What Happens to Women During Clitoral Orgasm? / Roni erez

For many women, reaching an orgasm is an important part of love making or masturbation. This is why it is important to have an intimate environment to arouse sexual energy. During sexual arousal the vagina becomes wet and blood flow increases. Its color changes and becomes darker while the clitoris also becomes wet. The lips of the vagina swell outward. The cervix and uterus are pulled up into the pelvic region. The vagina becomes elongated, heart rate increases as does breathing, sweating, an...
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Dear Roni

I experienced two amazing and intense Meetings with you. You opened a window to a new, fascinating and wondrous inner world that I did not know. Exposing barriers to which I was not aware and thanks to which I learned to release them and allow myself to intensify my sexual pleasure. Throughout the process you were attentive, patient, motivated, dedicated, believing, pleasant, sharing and empathic, and only because of your special personality and pleasant attitude did you allow me to open up ...
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Lose control / Roni erez

After watching “50 shades darker” with my partner, here are some conclusions. This movie is better than “50 shades of Gray” – better filming, very arousing. It can be a source for some ideas of things we could want to do or want done to us.  Many women tell me they fantasize about being controlled in bed by their partner, being told what to do. It can be very exciting to lose control over what is happening. Their partner off course has to be sensitive, understanding and thoughtful – or there ...
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Blessed weekend

I want to offer you some tips that would arouse your sexuality and get you to a experiencing true sexual pleasure and great wonderful orgasms. First – plan to have sex and make time for it. Spontaneous sex is very nice and fun, but sexual pleasure requires some premeditation. If you want to have sex in the evening, let your partner know and make enough time for it. Think about it during the day, and approach it with excitement and expectation for your next pleasure. When our focus is sexual...
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A sexy tip for the new year / Roni erez

When you’re together, take 12 identical square pieces of paper of the same color. Each of you should write 6 notes – each for something you’d like your partner to do for you in bed. Agree to open one note each month (either at the beginning, middle or end, as long as it doesn’t become cause for arguments). Since they are all at the same color and should be folded, you can’t know ahead whose note would be chosen. Commit to fulfilling that fantasy for your partner, and they to fulfill yours, if ...
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Sex is like food / roni erez

The connection between sex and food is very common in our society. Many foods are perceived as aphrodisiacs, and the term “pleasures of the flesh” has quite the double meaning. A person who takes pleasure in eating is often presumed to enjoy the pleasures of sex. Many movie scenes combining sex with food were implanted in our minds over the years. The ice scene and the wine and strawberries scene from the movie 9½ Weeks are of the most memorable examples. If food and sex are so related and i...
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The Therapeutic Process / roni erez

  The Therapeutic Process At the start begining of my new path, when I realized what I was going through, I talked to different professionals in order to understand the enormous phenomenon transformation I was experiencing. A transformation From being able to orgasm experience only with the clitoris orgasm usually, and only after a lot of “hard work”, to experiencing vaginal orgasms, and becoming multi-orgasmic.  full control what I experience my orgasms. In the beginning, I had t...
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The therapeutic Process – The First Session

 Why do many women have a hard time reaching orgasm?Much has been written about this subject including articles I have written on this website. Here, I would like to dive deeper into what we do in the first of two meetings to make orgasm possible. Positive thinking is key! Women come to me out of duress, hardship, sadness, frustration, shame, and more. All these reasons prevent them from enjoying sexual encounters. Women go through many years of marriage and some bear children without ever exp...
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The Therapeutic Process – The Second Session / roni erez

Positive thinking is very important. It might be a cliché but among positive thinkers you will find more happy individuas than among negative thinkers. As part of training my own mind to think positive I prepared notes with empowering questions directed at myself. I wrote down a number of questions and decided to consider them seriously every day for 3 weeks. The purpose of the empowering questions I ask my clients is to transition the mind to think in a positive way. These are questions that...
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The Importance of the Weekly Date Night / Roni erez

Long lasting relationships can decrease sexual desire. In the beginning most couples don’t talk about this fact because they both want sex. Even couples that are not very sexual understand in their subconscious that sex is important to substantiating the relationship. And of course being in love also contributes a great deal to this as well. As the relationship matures and the sense of certainty in the relationship grows, couples find themselves more and more preoccupied with life’s tasks. Livi...
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